Look, it’s not for us to judge singer/rapper Ray J’s decision to give Kim Kardashian the profits from their sex tape as a wedding present. So we asked the one person who could: A wedding expert. Alicia Menendez sat down with A Practical Wedding Editor-in-Chief Meg Keene to find out if this was the worst (or best) idea ever.

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